Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much of life. So aim above morality. Be not simply good; be good for something."
~ Henry David Thoreau, naturalist and author (1817-1862)

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Who Says You Can't Go Home?

Forty-three years ago (almost to the day), my mother bought a home in Simpsonville, SC. It wasn't easy. She was a single mother with two kids and no one would give her a loan. She was denied a loan because she was divorced, not because her RN job wasn't enough to pay the mortgage. Finally, a small bank gave her a mortgage. She was fiercely proud of her home. When she sold the house in 2007 to move into assisted living, I expected the move to be emotionally traumatic for her, and for me, too. However, we both packed it up and moved on without shedding a tear. We spoke about it often, how there was a peace about the move, not sadness, something difficult for either of us to explain. By crazy chance and because of numerous odd circumstances, my husband and I discovered the house was for sale again by owner when we were in SC for Mom's service. We decided to buy it and we closed on Friday! We will be there part-time until I get a SC job but having a home will make the transition so much easier!


Who says you can't go home? Bon Jovi


Eastview mid-70s.

Eastview today.

If you would like a more detailed version of this story, you may visit my private blog about the journey to scatter my Mom's ashes in all 50 states www.wishesforashes.com. It is important to note that if we hadn't made the decision in February to relocate, Eastview on the market would not have tempted us to make that decision. In fact, if we hadn't already looked at real estate all over Greenville and decided exactly what we wanted and needed, we might not have even considered it to be appropriate for us.